Do you ever feel anxious? Wound up or restless? Anxiety can be overwhelming. Feeling amped up can happen to everyone at some time in life. This is one way that anxiety presents itself. How you deal with anxiety is what makes the difference. Here are 5 Ways to Soothe Your Anxious Mind.

Be Here Now

Anxiety can be described as worrying about something that is in the future. You are basically so efficient that you are worrying in advance. Be here now: What’s happening at this moment? Bring yourself back to the present. This can be done by doing a task that requires all of your attention. For some people, this might be an art project. Others might find relief from a sport that demands all their focus. For others pausing and reflecting on being present is enough. Find what works for you to bring you into the moment you are in right now and relax your amped emotions.

Take A Break

Sometimes you just need a break. Get out of town, take a day off, or go for a run. Move your body and breathe fresh air. A change of environment or even a change of routine can refresh the soul and relax the mind.


Ask yourself if what you are anxious or amped about is reasonable and logical. Check-in. Ask yourself if whatever is happening at this moment is even worth investing your energy in. This allows you to train your brain to come up with a rational way to deal with your amped or anxious emotions. Developing these habits prepares you for the future when you have a similar experience. Having a contingency plan will help you feel calmer in the moment.

Meditation And Deep Breathing

Deep breathing can help relax many people. Whether meditation or breathing exercises help; both are excellent relaxation and focusing methods. Search online for various methods to try. Yoga, group classes, or individual practice may help you with relaxation and self-soothing. All of these activities are excellent for your wellbeing and overall health.


Changing the way, you look at a situation can change the way you feel about it. This can be done as an intentional act or be something that happens automatically depending on your mindset, and temperament. According to a study: “Appraisal theories of emotion suggest that it is an individual’s subjective appraisal of an event—that is, its’ meaning and significance—rather than the event itself that leads to a specific emotional reaction.” (Seeing the Silver Lining: Cognitive Reappraisal Ability Moderates the Relationship Between Stress and Depressive Symptoms, Allison S. Troy, et al, 2010)

How you look at an event can change your emotions about it. If you have a balanced calm mindset, it will take more for you to feel amped up. You will have better distress tolerance and be better able to handle emotions that arise.

You can learn to self-soothe using small changes to daily habits and reframing your thoughts. Implementing these 5 Ways to Soothe Your Anxious Mind will help you develop techniques to increase relaxation in your daily life, de-stress and improve your emotional wellbeing to Live Your Full Life.

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